Dear Boot: I am having trouble with
my sissy maid Emily. She likes to dress as a woman, attend events,
and unlike most sissy maids, she does not like being called a boy
(even when in boy's dress for work). She is poor to useless at her
maid duties, but she pouts and sulks a lot when told off. I've kept
her boy-clit in a cage for 7 months, but nothing seems to be working.
How do I humiliate her?
Well, there's a lot
of question there. And, I think, there's a problem with how you refer
to her. I'm not entirely sure that Emily is a sissy.
What do you mean?
Well, a sissy tends
to be someone genetically male who is dressed as and treated as an
extremely (even ridiculously) feminine less-than-person. It's about
degradation, humiliation, and taking someone who might once have seen
themselves as masculine and breaking them down into complete slavery,
often by using that feeling of masculinity against them.
It's like small
penis humiliation. Some men do have a small penis. And some
men have a large penis. Some have an average sized one. And the truth
of the matter is that it's all luck of the draw. But the size of the
penis doesn't actually have anything to do with small penis
humiliation.
It doesn't? That seems wrong. I
mean, it's called
small penis humiliation. Doesn't that kind of require
a small penis?
No. You see, the
important part there is the humiliation. It doesn't matter if
the person has a small penis or a large one. What matters is that he
is proud of, or at least acutely conscious about, the actual
size of his penis. If calling it small is just stating a fact, and
one that he has accepted, then it's no more humiliating than it would
be to tell me that my name rhymes with 'boobs.' It's just how it is.
In order for the size of his penis to have any impact on humiliation,
he has to be uncertain. He has to either have no idea if it is big or
not, or he has to worry that it's too small and think that people
will make fun of him for that small size. The humiliation comes from
fulfilling that fear and fantasy, or from taking something he's proud
of and telling him that he not only shouldn't be proud of it, but
rather that he should be ashamed of it.
What does this have to do with
Emily?
Well, if Emily is
accepting of herself as a woman, if she thinks of herself as Emily
rather than, say, Steve (or whatever the name on her birth
certificate may be), then it isn't humiliating to call her feminine.
It's not humiliating to say she's effeminate, and it's not
humiliating to call her girly. These are things that she sees as
facts. Or even as preferences. She might even be proud of being
girly. You can't make fun of someone for something they are proud of,
something they take as a compliment. No bully ever successfully made
someone cry through compliments. Emily, it seems, likes being
a sissy.
But she's a bad maid.
Yes she is. And
from the sound of it, that doesn't bother her. She isn't interested
in being a maid. That's why she's no good at it. And why she pouts
when you yell at her for being bad at it.
So what do I do?
It's a tough
question. The trick to it, the trick to any humiliation, is to
go after the things they are proud of. To tell someone that what they
enjoy is wrong, that it's something they should be ashamed of.
Basically, you're trying to build a humiliation loop. Make her feel
bad about something she likes, then make her feel bad that she enjoys
feeling bad about it.
That's all well and good, but you're
not really answering my questions. Don't make me hurt you.
Okay, okay. Just
put the whip down... for now. Let me see if I can get at what you
need. Does Emily think she passes as a woman? She likes being called
Emily when in her boy clothes. Does she like being called Emily
publicly? Maybe she should have a name tag at her job that says
Emily. Or something on her desk. Of course, that involves the public
without consent... so maybe not.
Seriously, Boot. I'm going to hurt
you.
I'm thinking, I'm
thinking. Maybe the problem is that Emily doesn't actually like
humiliation; maybe she just doesn't respond to it all that well. You
said she pouts when she is scolded. So scolding isn't an effective
punishment. You need one that will work better. And I have an idea. I
recommend an invisible fence.
What, like for dogs?
Exactly. You put
the invisible fence in the room or rooms that Emily is allowed to be
in, the ones she is supposed to clean. But you leave one
corner of one of the rooms outside the fence. And so if she goes into
that corner, her collar will shock her. You show her this, then tell
her to clean up. And tell her that if she doesn't do a good job, not
only will you yell at her, but you will also make her sit in the
corner. Maybe the pain will convince her.
Or maybe the way to
get at her is to go backwards. If she's proud of being feminine, tell
her that she makes an ugly woman. Tell her that it's obvious that
she's a man. Call her by her male name if she doesn't do as she's
told. Don't let her shave. Remind her that she'll be the bearded
lady. Tell her that you'll still make her serve, make her dress up,
but you won't let her shave unless she does a good job and proves
that she's a good sissy.
Basically, if she
likes being a sissy, you take that away from her until she does what
you want. Until she admits either that she likes being a sissy, or
(if she already admits that), you make her admit that no one is
fooled and that she will never pass as a woman. Everyone knows that
she's a man, and no amount of makeup, girly clothing, or practice
will ever change that. Then remind her that since she isn't doing
what she's supposed to, since she's growing out facial hair, it's her
choice that makes sure she won't pass as a woman. That she is making
it happen. And then point out that she likes that, she likes that no
one will ever think she passes. And then you have your humiliation
loop.
Okay, not bad.
So you're not going
to whip me?
Is that disappointment I hear? Did
you want me to whip
you?
Hey, Emily's not
the only submissive out there, you know.
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